For
Fathers and Daughters Who Want a Better Relationship – But Can’t Seem
to Get Started
From: V. Michael Santoro
Location: Tampa Bay, Florida
Re: Fathers and Daughters can be best friends
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Dear friend,
Sometimes it feels like relating to our daughters is harder than trying
to nail Jell-O to a tree! This is especially true with our preteen and
teenage daughters. It is amazing how she can transition over night from
“daddy’s little girl” into a case of “raging hormones.” Dealing with
the mood swings and ultra-sensitivity can be a true test of your
patience.
It’s not that you don’t love or care about your daughter. What’s
difficult is not knowing what to do to protect her, and feeling
helpless when you are not reaching her. Also, at the same time, she
wants to exhibit more independence. Then when you try to exert more
influence to protect her, which she views as control -- not love and
caring -- deepens the alienation and increases the stress. This can
cause you to feel a wall building between you and your daughter.
However, most fathers and daughters do not know what to do to get
through these barriers.
I’m willing to bet that you’re a good father, work hard and want to
have a better relationship with your daughter. She probably feels the
same way. The problem is that you’re not sure what to do or how to get
started. Just being told that you need to communicate better is not
enough. That statement usually raises more questions than offers any
help. Relationships between fathers and daughters is special but a
constant challenge.
If you are experiencing these challenges, then you need to know about
our approach that makes it remarkably easy to become best friends with
your daughter.
"Realizing the Power of Love" is written to help fathers and daughters
build trust and a better relationship through improving their
communication and problem solving skills. While our focus is dads and
daughters, the information we provide is written to help families with
teenagers.
What critics are saying about our book
“Realizing the Power of Love”
Dr. Suzanne
Persons, Ph.D., LMHC (Specializes in counseling for fathers and
daughters)
Your
book offers through real life examples and suggested activities a very
readable account of how fathers and daughters can create a reliable,
resilient, and rewarding relationship. This is a book worth reading for
fathers who want a relationship with their daughters and for daughters
who want a relationship with the man who is their father.
Judine
Slaughter, Book Reviewer, eybooks.com
V.
Michael Santoro and Jennifer Santoro do a fantastic job by working
together to assist other families build better relationships. It's
great to hear from both generations about developing a true friendship.
Although he started early on the relationship with his daughter, it's
never too late to begin applying the techniques of good communication
with your child. I recommend, "Realizing the Power of Love" for all
parents and children, no matter which gender.
Rosalind
Brackenbury, Book Reviewer, KeysNews.com
For those of us of my generation whose fathers either ignored us or
could not bring themselves to utter anything except criticism
throughout our teenage years, this book will prove an astonishment.
This book will make men reflect on the fathering they had and the
fathering they are able to do. It will remind women of their own
fathers and what, in spite of their conditioning as men, they were
still able to show them as love. I'm so glad that Michael and Jennifer
hung in there and stayed the course, showing us what their relationship
looks like, reminding men that they can change their conditioning,
offering their daughters a model of what it's like to feel the equal of
Dad.
Advice to Fathers: Learn How to Become a
Better Dad
How to Wake
Up the Dad inside You
You have the desire. Now all you need is the secret to making your
daughter trust you. “Realizing the Power of Love” provides the ten
steps for developing a better relationship between fathers and
daughters. Do you want your daughter to proactively come to you for
help BEFORE she acts - without fear and because
she values your advice?
Imagine the peace of mind you’ll achieve and how much happier your
daughter will feel knowing she has your complete support and respect.
Our book allows fathers and daughters to develop a win-win relationship
while enjoying the journey.
What sets our book apart is that it has been co-authored by a real life
father and daughter, and uses a practical building block approach to
learning. You will discover how to improve your communication and
problem solving skills and apply them to your relationships. You will
also learn how to break down any barriers to a better relationship. “Realizing
the Power of Love” is written for fathers and daughters with busy
schedules who need to see fast results for their efforts.
Also, our book was a finalist in the USABookNews.com "Best Books 2004"
Award Contest.
If you have difficulty getting started, we provide a “hit the ground
running” step-by-step approach that teaches you how to build trust, and
ultimately develop a true friendship with your daughter.
To help you transition from your “father” role to your “dad” role, our
book shows you how to modify the communication and problem solving
skills that you use at work for use with your daughter.
Yes, you can become
best friends with your daughter
With our book,
you will discover:
How to
identify your personal values and learn how they can positively and
negatively influence your communication style
The ten ways
of how to become "best friends" with your daughter while still
retaining parental control
The no-lose
way to develop a win-win relationship with your daughter
How to listen
to your daughter, so she will proactively discuss important topics with
you BEFORE acting
How to ask
penetrating questions without appearing to be interrogating your
daughter
The four
topics that you should AVOID discussing with your
daughter
The 25
statements and questions you should also AVOID
using when talking to your daughter – especially when you’re angry
How to discuss
difficult topics such as sex and drugs without stuttering, blushing or
getting tongue-tied
The “Ten
Commandments” for solving
emotionally charged problems. Following this approach will help you to
assist your daughter in gaining control and proactively solving her
problems - rather than reacting emotionally and possibly getting hurt
What to do if
you and your daughter cannot agree on a solution
How to
encourage your daughter to follow
her dreams, while keeping her feet firmly planted on the ground without
“raining on her parade"
How to teach
boys to treat girls equally, even if they are different
How to act in
public when you are together and live to tell about it
What to do if
your daughter disobeys a direct order
How to
proactively interact with your daughter through the 14 provided fun
activities designed to help you become best friends
And much much
more…
With our book,
your daughter will discover how to:
Be taken more
seriously and gain more of your trust
View you as
part of her solution, as opposed to part of her problem
Handle talking
to you about difficult topics such as sex and drugs without being
afraid or embarrassed
Avoid saying
hurtful things and what to say instead
Pro-actively
solve her problems with your help
Understand the
importance of trust and how it relates to her desire for more freedom
and independence
What readers are saying
about “Realizing the Power of Love”
R. Coleman,
former Dallas Cowboys Outside Linebacker
In
addition to being one of the most useful books that I've read in a
while, I found your book to be very personal and encouraging. Although
my 14-year-old daughter and I get along for the most part, there has
been a "wall" between us. We sensed it but didn't understand it or know
what to do. We are following your dads and daughters guidelines and
have begun to work on the trust in our relationship. We can both feel
that we are starting to make progress and we are working together to
become closer. Thanks for helping us to get started on our new fathers
and daughters friendship. I highly recommend your book for other
fathers and daughters.
D. Polzella,
Huntersville, NC
My wife bought me a copy of your fathers and daughters book. To be
honest, I don't usually like self-help books. We have a younger
daughter, so I figured it wouldn't help me for a few years. But, I
figured that I would flip through it. I was amazed at how much I was
relating to what you were saying. I thought, “He’s a lot like me." It
was an easy read and your step-by-step approach made it easy to do. I
am now using it so by the time my daughter is a teen, we will already
be best friends. I figure it may mean less gray hair by then. :) Thanks.
D. Jenings,
Wolcott, CT
I initially bought
your fathers and daughters book for my brother as a gift for Father’s
Day. He has a teenage daughter. I am a single mother with a teenage
son. I didn’t expect your fathers and daughters book would do much for
us. Well, when it arrived, I was curious and started scanning the
chapters. The next thing I knew, I was reading it thinking, “Hey, this
makes sense.” Even my son liked it. He said, as he read it, that he
felt like he knew your daughter. We are now using your fathers and
daughters book and we actually look forward to spending more time
together. I was pleasantly surprised that your book can actually help
mothers and sons as well. In fact, I kept it. But I did buy another
copy for my brother. What makes your fathers and daughters book special
is that I felt like you were talking to me as a friend. Thank you so
much.
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